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LEARN TO DISAGREE WITHOUT HATING

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Human opinions are varied as opposed to programmed systems and technologies. Depending on the variety of factors we individually experience in our surroundings, our psychological makeups and our points of view regarding issues are most likely to differ.

Of course, it is not abnormal in some instances to have a feeling of wish that if everyone else was to be like you, the world would have been an easier place to be. Your wish even rekindles when people seem to act and/or gather thoughts in manners you think you wouldn’t have. But come to think of this, how would our stay on earth be if everyone else was to think and act just like you? Would the essence of living be fulfilled at all? What then shall we be living for?

Having our diversities in mind, not coming to terms on issues in some instances shall certainly prevail in our life endeavors. Misunderstandings and unrests keep looming because we all have unique thoughts society has couched for us. “The best version of you is you yourself” as is usually said. So expect not that everyone else thinks or acts as you.

One trait of ours we need to reconsider in such moments we face contentions in view and opinion sharing would be the manner in which we react in instances we tend to not come to common terms with one another. As evidenced by the proverb, “Don’t raise your voice, improve your argument”, making our points well made with glaring evidence is enough to clearly spell our stance. It needs no hate whatsoever.

It is the case that a number of us have fixated our thoughts to accept that anyone who opposes us is not one who cares for us. But how true is that? We only have to keep reminding ourselves that we are all distinctively different and cannot possess same opinions at all times. Therefore, when one opposes you, see it as an opportunity to make yourself understood rather than taking it as an offense.

Just remember that we all don’t think and analyze things in the same way. Little brawls and misunderstandings should not make you enemies. You should be able to stand in disagreement with people without hating them at last. Do you have cherished ones you’ve broken ties with just because they sided not with some engagement or thoughts of yours? If yes, then it’s time to move past those shackles and create new paths. You may be right – you may also be wrong. This other person may be right – s/he may also be wrong.

But our loving and forgiving principles should be constantly illuminated by the saying ” We are all full of weakness and errors. Let’s mutually pardon each other our follies”. After all, “opinions are like noses, everybody has one and nobody’s is perfect”.

Peace!

Written by: Lambon, S. Jamal Jnr.

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I will Start Asking Guys Out For Love If They Refuse to Ask Me Out

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A 27-year-old Kano lady in Nigeria has bemoaned her inability to find love at her age despite looking beautiful and presentable.

The worried lady who lamented on a radio program in Kano said in all her life, she has never had a boyfriend.
She said all her mate clocking three to four years at their husband’s house while she remain lonely.

She said in a bid to find a solution to her problem, her father took her to see a spiritual doctor who told her that her situation is beyond the physical. She said despite seeing the doctor, her condition has not changed, and she has now resolved to ask guys around for love as she can’t continue in that situation.

Do you have any advise for the young lady on what she can do?
kindly drop your suggestions by commenting below.

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Man releases pre-wedding photo with his bride’s face blurred

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A pre-wedding photo released on Facebook is currently making rounds on social media after it caught the attention of many on the platform. The photo showed the bride and groom but something strange was also featured on it.

In the pre-wedding photo shared by the groom-to-be, Rabiu Biyora, the bride’s face was blurred.

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This caught the attention of many who were left confused. Biyora had released the pre-wedding photo with invitation.

From the invitation, the wedding had taken place on the first Sunday of the year. It took place on Sunday, January 5, in Yola. The invite also identified Biyora’s wife as Fateema Mansur Sani.

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TV commercials from the past that would make you recall very old memories.

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The advertising landscape in Ghana has seen a tremendous evolution over the years due to advanced technology and better marketing strategies from top notch companies in the country.

Some of the adverts that graced our TV screen with the invention of mass media were hilarious to say the least. Other adverts that came along the line, proved to be so popular that they became adopted into everyday life. Some of the strategies used in the TV commercials sought to tell stories before bringing out the main reason for the advert. Some companies also adopted the use of animations to advertise their brands, products and services.

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